10 Great Morning Sex Tips For A Memorable Wake-Up

Discover the best morning sex tips to start your day with a spark. Explore ways to enhance intimacy and pleasure as soon as you wake up.

Published Nov 21 2023 8 min read

Are you looking to add some excitement to your mornings? Well, what’s more exciting than morning sex? Having sex in the morning is not only a fantastic way to kickstart your day, but can also bring a range of benefits for you and your partner, like increased energy levels and a stronger bond. So, grab your cup of coffee and get ready for some morning sex tips that'll leave you feeling invigorated and connected all day long!

1. Wake up earlier

Waking up early is a fantastic way to make sure you start your day with intimacy. Set your alarm a little earlier to make time for connection. You don't even have to be fully awake to enjoy the experience. This minor tweak can help you feel more connected to your partner and less rushed as you start your day.

When you wake up early, you can savor every moment with your partner instead of rushing through intimacy and your morning routine. And hey, using snooze time for some intimacy is a clever way to fit in those passionate moments, making hitting the snooze button even more tempting. By creating this buffer zone with your alarm, you can enjoy a relaxed atmosphere for intimate moments and start your day positively.

2. Freshen up

Before having some morning fun, freshen up to address any concerns about feeling less attractive. Just take a quick trip to the bathroom for basic hygiene to help you feel good, comfortable, and ready. You don't have to take a full shower, but a quick wash of important parts can make you feel refreshed and confident. Using mouthwash and applying deodorant are simple steps to feel clean, fresh, and appealing to your partner.

3. Set the mood

Setting the right atmosphere is vital for satisfying morning intimacy. To create the perfect mood, engage your senses and ease into the day with a gentle transition. Adjust the lighting to set the mood, dimming or drawing the shades for a soft glow. Snuggling under the covers sets the cozy tone. Enhance the ambiance with scented candles and some tunes. A thoughtfully curated playlist can provide a relaxing backdrop. Enjoy a light breakfast in bed or a freshly brewed cup of coffee with each other to complement the moment. Remember, prioritize comfort and relaxation to enjoy the moment together fully.

4. Warm up slowly

Starting the day with sex in the morning sets a positive tone, creating deep emotional resonance that lasts all day. Take your time, enjoy the moment with your partner, and focus on foreplay. Little things like a sensual massage can heighten pleasure. When you are connected to your partner, your body is ready to release oxytocin and endorphins, which boosts your mood and strengthens your bond. Remember, don't rush when it comes to intimacy. Tune in to your partner's desires, communicate openly, and always respect boundaries. Take your time exploring each other's bodies, building trust and connection. Make morning sex a special part of your routine that brightens your day and increases intimacy.

5. Experiment with sex toys

Using sex toys in your morning routine can bring some excitement and enhance pleasure, especially when you're short on time. These tools are great for boosting pleasure, especially for those who may have trouble getting aroused or maintaining an erection in the early hours.

There's a wide variety of sex toys available to suit different preferences and needs. For folks with vulvas, vibrators like Crescendo 2 and Poco can stimulate various pleasure zones. Poco's flexible design targets the G-spot, while Crescendo 2's adaptable shape can stimulate multiple areas, including the G-spot, vulva, vagina, and clitoris.

For people with penises, Tenuto 2 and Tenuto Mini wearable vibrators offer all-around stimulation. Tenuto 2, with its four motors, can provide stimulation from the penis to the perineum and a partner’s clitoris and vulva, while Tenuto Mini, a compact and flexible option, offers 360° stimulation around the penis. These sex toys are designed to fit comfortably and can be especially helpful for those with erectile dysfunction, improving blood flow and performance.

When introducing sex toys, it's essential to communicate openly with your partner to ensure comfort and consent. Whether you start with a basic vibrator or explore further with handcuffs or blindfolds, mutual agreement and clear communication about desires and boundaries are essential. Remember to prioritize the comfort of both partners and be open to discussing what you're interested in trying together.

6. Balance energy levels

Sometimes, one partner may feel frisky in the morning while the other is still trying to wake up. In these situations, the more active partner can take the lead and gently guide towards some morning intimacy. The other partner can choose to be more laid-back, enjoying morning sex without feeling pressured to ramp up immediately. This can be a good compromise when energy levels between partners aren’t matched. It's important to remember that consent is vital, and both partners should feel comfortable and willing to engage in any intimate morning activities. Communication about preferences and boundaries is crucial. This mutual understanding creates a respectful environment for early birds and night owls to experience pleasure together.

7. Explore beyond penetration

Morning intimacy can involve more than just penetration. Activities like oral sex and hand jobs can spice up your sexual experiences and be good alternatives to penetration, especially in the mornings when you're transitioning from sleep to wakefulness.

Activities like fingering, hand job, and oral sex can also deepen your understanding of each other's pleasure preferences, creating a more personalized and connected experience without the pressure of penetration. By embracing these non-penetrative forms of pleasure, you add variety to your morning sex sessions, ensuring that you both start the day feeling connected and fulfilled.

8. Tackle morning breath

Morning breath can ruin the mood in the morning. Luckily, there are simple ways to freshen up for a more enjoyable experience. Fresh breath makes intimate moments so much better. The easiest way to achieve that is by brushing your teeth. It instantly freshens your breath and gets rid of any overnight smells. If brushing alone doesn't do the trick, or you want extra freshness, mouthwash is a great option. And if you're short on time, breath mints or chewing gum can give you a quick and instant breath refresh. For extra convenience, keep a glass of water and some mints or gum by your bedside.

9. Simplify intimacy

Morning intimacy is all about those simple, joyful moments that set the tone for the day. It's a chance for affection and closeness without the need for athletic or advanced moves. Energy-saving sex positions aka lazy sex positions like spooning or lazy doggy style are recommended for a gentle and easy start. These lazy sex positions let you fully embrace the pleasure of the moment and remind us that sex doesn't always have to be intense or acrobatic to find joy and connection.

10. Plan morning intimacy

Amidst our busy adult lives, scheduling sex and intimacy can be a practical and effective approach for modern couples to stay connected. Planning morning intimacy can be as routine as picking out your outfit for the next day or getting ready for breakfast. When you make morning intimacy a non-negotiable part of your daily routine, it helps prioritize and normalize it. And when it’s planned and expected, it cultivates excitement and sets the mood the night before, creating the perfect headspace for the morning. Sharing the importance of morning intimacy with your partner strengthens your connection. So why not make it a regular part of your morning routine to enhance your partnership?


These morning sex tips can help bring more joy and connection to your relationship and kickstart your day on a positive note. By embracing the revitalizing power of morning intimacy, fostering closeness, and following these tips, you can have a truly fulfilling experience. Take your time to freshen up, set a cozy vibe, and don't hesitate to try out sex toys for added excitement while always prioritizing comfort and consent.

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