As Valentine's Day rolls around, you're eager to choose the perfect gift for that special someone in your life. Whether this is your first year together or you're looking for an amazing gift for a partner you've celebrated Valentine's Day with for years, you want to show your partner just how much you care. More than that, you may want to use this romantic holiday as an opportunity to shake things up in the bedroom or deepen the intimate connection between you. Having trouble deciding on a great gift? Try some of these amazing ideas this year.
Valentine's Day gift ideas for her
Looking for an amazing gift for the lovely lady in your life? Try some of these amazing options for spicing things up in the bedroom, adding a special romantic touch to your day, or just adding a little sparkle to her eyes.
1. Plan a romantic getaway
Sometimes the best gift is time, especially time away from responsibilities, distractions, and to-do lists. A romantic escape can be the perfect way to reconnect, recharge, and indulge in uninterrupted intimacy. Whether it’s a cozy cabin, a sleek hotel, or a tucked-away retreat, focus less on sightseeing and more on slowing down together - in and out of the bedroom.
What to bring:
- A few outfits that make both of you feel confident and sexy
- Your favorite vibrators or sex toys
- Something new you’ve been wanting to try
- Lubricant, to help keep the fun going!
- Massage oil, to ramp up the sensuality and make your time away even more intimate.
To really make it a gift, take the lead on planning, not just where you’ll stay, but how to make the time feel effortless. Handle bookings, prepare the playlist, and pack the essentials. When the goal is deeper connection, small details make a big difference.
2. Surprise her with a new vibrator
What better way to turn up the heat between the sheets than using a vibrator? And if you've never used a vibrator before, this is the perfect occasion to do something different and erotic. Vibrators add an extra layer of sensation that helps build arousal, intensify orgasms, and bring more novelty and excitement to foreplay and sex.
Our favorite picks: Crescendo 2 – the first fully bendable vibrator with 6 powerful motors and app-controlled patterns you can customize to match her preferences. Thanks to its unique bendability, it's a great way to explore new erogenous zones or discover what kinds of touch feel best. Alongside 16 intensity levels and vibration patterns you can customize or create, it can tease, please, and become the spicy gift that keeps on giving.
3. Take her shopping for lingerie
Lingerie can be a gift for both of you if you turn it into a date. Instead of guessing her size or style (and risking an awkward moment), make the experience playful and shared. Shopping for lingerie together builds anticipation for intimacy and gives her the freedom to choose something she feels sexy and confident in, while including you as part of the fun. Whisper what you’d love to see her in or just enjoy discovering what catches her eye. You might be surprised how much you love what she brings into the dressing room - or what she's taking home.
Make a whole afternoon of it. Browse, flirt, pick out a few wildcards for her to try. And if you go before dinner, don’t be surprised if you never make it to the restaurant. The right lingerie might just set the scene for skipping straight to dessert.
4. Say yes to one of her fantasies
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to lean into desire. Has she hinted at something she’s curious to try, like BDSM, edging, or something more adventurous? Surprise her with a gift (or a night) that shows you’ve been paying attention. Choose one thing you know she’s been craving or wanting to explore, and turn it into a night you spend together.
You could wrap a silky blindfold or soft restraints with a handwritten note. Play her favorite audio erotica or watch ethical porn together, if she’s into that. Or try a couple’s sex game that helps you both share fantasies and explore new sensations in a low-pressure, playful way.
And if she hasn’t named a specific fantasy? Make the night one. Light candles, dim the lights, and give her a sensual massage that’s focused entirely on her. Tease. Pause. Build. Follow her cues. Let the night stretch out with no expectations except exploring what feels good for her, and showing her just how turned on you get when she’s fully in her body.
Valentine's Day gift ideas for him
If it’s starting to feel like you’ve done it all before, this is your sign to do something unforgettable. Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to turn up the heat and show him just how desired he really is. Whether you’re gifting a spicy surprise or planning a night that’s all about him, these ideas are designed to arouse, excite, and bring you even closer.
1. Schedule a boudoir shoot and share the results.
There’s no denying it, receiving sexy photos or nudes from your partner is one of the hottest gifts a man can get. A boudoir shoot takes that to the next level. It’s personal, sensual, professional, and something he’ll revisit often.
Work with a professional photographer to capture some intimate shots that highlight the side of you he loves most, whether that’s playful, powerful, or provocative, or all the above. Then surprise him with a custom photo book or a series of prints tucked into his travel bag, nightstand, or inbox.
2. Get him a vibrator made for his pleasure
Who says vibrators are only for women? There are a ton of vibrators dedicated to men out there, and chances are, he doesn’t have one! It’s true, there’s still a bit of taboo around men buying vibrators for themselves. But if you’re the one gifting it, he’ll be more than excited that you’re thinking about his pleasure. Even better? Choose a vibrator that feels amazing for him and benefits you too, like Tenuto 2.
Tenuto 2 is a wearable vibrator designed to be worn on the penis with 4 powerful motors that stimulate the penis and perineum for stronger erections and more intense sensations. When worn during sex, the front 3 motors also stimulate the entire vulva and clitoris. It’s a win-win kind of gift that allows you both to focus on each other instead of fumbling between bodies.
3. Plan a sexy evening in
You don’t need dinner reservations or a weekend away to make Valentine’s feel special. Sometimes, the sexiest nights happen right at home. Set the mood with candles, soft music, and his favorite drink. Give him a slow, sensual massage using warm massage oil, and let your hands linger in all the right places. Wear something that makes you feel confident and turn the evening into something that’s all about connection, tension, and letting things unfold naturally.
4. Buy him seductive underwear
Seductive underwear is an unexpectedly great gift for him precisely because it’s not something most men ever think to buy for themselves. That novelty alone makes it exciting. It flips the script, signals desire, and turns something typically utilitarian into something intentionally erotic.
Men’s sizing is usually straightforward, which makes this one easy to get right. Choose a pair designed to be seen. Think silk, mesh, or a cut that highlights his body in a way he’s probably never tried before. The kind of underwear that makes him feel wanted, confident, and a little exposed in the best way. It’s a simple gift that creates instant anticipation, and turns getting dressed (or undressed) into part of the fun.
5. Try something new in bed together
Sometimes the sexiest gift isn’t an object at all. It’s a shared experience that creates a little adrenaline. Like trying new sex positions, or dirty talk if that’s not typically your norm, or leaning into a little domination.
It could be as simple as changing the pace, the setting, or who takes the lead. Shower sex. Sex somewhere unexpected. Letting one of you call the shots for the night. Small shifts like these can make intimacy feel fresh and exciting without needing to overhaul everything you already love.
If you’re not sure where to start, a little guidance can help. The MysteryVibe Playcards are designed to spark ideas and open the door to new experiences, without pressure or awkward guesswork. Pull one card, follow the prompt, and see where it takes you. Sometimes all it takes is permission to try something different together.
Takeaway
Valentine’s Day can be more than flowers and dinner reservations - if you want it to be. Whether you’re planning a sensual night in or trying something completely new together, the best gifts deepen connection and spark shared desire. Sometimes, that means a romantic getaway. Other times, it means introducing the award-winning couple's vibrators to intensify pleasure for everyone involved - long after the candles burn out.
